Having said all that, my wife and I are over 60 years old, hard to believe but it's true, and I am working on expanding our sexual relationship by encouraging her to dress sexy, but classy, flirt with men and allow herself to be turned on by the idea of sex with another man. It is a slow process but we both have been writing back and forth on our private blog about this sort of thing and I will be sharing some of what we have written to each other I hope to get some feedback especially from other couples.
Monday, August 25, 2014
I loved your newest photos!!! Very sexy! And I loved the messages as well! I love the idea of personal freedom. I always have. There’s not much that feels better that just being free and feeling easy in your own skin, no matter what your surroundings.
I can remember a day drive up to Tahoe when I was …17?…with an old boyfriend who I hadn’t seen in a long time.Okay… must have been 19…doesn’t matter. Anyway, he’d joined the service and had had second thoughts about our breakup, so when he was back on leave he asked me to drive up to the lake.
The whole day was just so relaxed and easy and fun for me because I knew first of all, that I looked great. Summer time was always good for me…long hair all sunbleached, great tan, summer thin… you get the idea. I knew that he wanted to be with me and that the choice was mine to make. Lot of feminine power in that.
I knew that whatever I wanted to do was okay with him, and that no matter what I did, no matter how casually I was dressed, that I looked great…and that he was taking it all in and practically had his little pink tongue hanging out. I didn’t have to stress about what anyone thought, or how I acted or how I looked . I pretty much had all my “i’s”dotted and “t;s” crossed and it was just a wonderful late summer day, all day, and it felt so good to know that I had his full attention. Most of all it felt awesome to know that the choice was mine about what happened or didn’t happen, where I wanted the day to go and what he and I would do or be to each other.
That’s freedom…when you don’t have to watch everything you say and everything you do for worry of displeasing the person you are with. It is amazing to be with someone who is just pleased to be spending time with you, whatever happens next.
So much for digging into my personal archives. The message about “freedom” just brought that memory forward. Just remember that, for me, it all comes back to you. To you and I. If I didn’t feel that way, or want it that way, I’d be out looking for another man to make me feel like I’m 19 again, you know? I love you, and you are, without a doubt, the sexiest man to me that I know, or that I ever see when we are out. Trying to get excited over another man would be like trying to get excited about a bowl of soup when I could have a five course meal of my choice. It just doesn’t capture my imagination. I’m happy to talk and flirt a little bit and maybe even dance with some one we meet while were out. But I don’t want anything more from them than their admiration and their respect.Does that make any sense to you?
Likie you said , we can still have so much fun together, and I so want to do that! I think we deserve it! And I really want to make the very most of each day that we can, even when we hurt some. I think about that a lot in the evenings when I’m sitting here alone and wonder if we’re just letting life pass us by because it’s easier. I don’t want to do that. I want at least, to make the very most we can out of the opportunities we have. That doesn’t mean we have to be out and about every night or every day. We’d be exhausted! But when we have the chance…Let’s have some fun!!! Love you!
I would love to hear your thoughts my TUMBLR followers